In October 2009, Left Brain and I ventured to Ukraine to start our family. We adopted two precious little boys. We are currently wanting to expand our family by 2 more! We're looking into adoption again. Read along, see where our journeys take us.

Sunday, October 4, 2009

last day alone

Today is our last day alone here in Ukraine. Our translator will return tonight or early in the morning. Thank goodness. We have no one else here that speaks English....it is frustrating to try and order food or actually do anything. We speak one word at a time.
We haven't had much excitement thus far today. We have only visited Blue Eyes so far and are now stopping at the internet cafe before going to visit Mr. GQ. We had a tad bit excitement out of Blue Eyes. We have been showing them both photos of the family. GQ refuses to look but Blue Eyes looks at them each day. He now knows who Mama, Papa, Bebe, and Pop are by looking at the pictures. He loves to say Bebe. He calls everyone else in the photos Bebe. It's cute. He is picking up several English words and remembers to use them when he is supposed to. We make him say please for his cereal instead of just grabbing the bag. Today he walked up to the bag and said please all on his own without being prompted first. This is great. Actually, his please sounds more like peeez. It's sweet. He also told us Bye today as we left. His caregiver prompted him to say it but it was very clear. I am so excited with the way he is progressing with us. Today when we arrived he noticed us from across the playground and started yelling at his caregiver and pointing at us. She finally understood him and allowed him to get off of the bench and come over to us. It's the little things like that which make Left Brain and I smile. We know he is understanding more and more each day. We can see the light at the end of the tunnel.
We are hopeful that today will go well with Mr. GQ. We took a new video with the camera today while we were with Blue Eyes because GQ loves watching the other one so much. Maybe that will make him smile. I am also hoping that he will finally sit and look at the photos with us.
We received a phone call from America last night. It was great to hear from my in-laws. Although, we both agreed after hanging up the phone that it did make us a little homesick to talk with them. Anyone wanting to contact us can get the information from Left Brain's mom. I think she had to buy a phone card and was able to get us on the first try.
That's all for now, and we look forward to seeing everyone again.

5 comments:

  1. oh my goodness. im so excited. i tell you what i am gonna buy one of those phone cards am i so ready to talk to yall. and im so ready for yall to come home. i love yall and miss yall so much. glad everything is still progressing. good luck.

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  2. The photos will come, don't push him. It is such a difficult time for him right now feeling guilty for wanting to stay where he is familiar and wanting his new mama and papa which is unknown. Each child adapts at their own speed. Praying for you!
    Also, I suggest you download the PDF file of "Russian Child Talk" to help you with some simple yet comforting phrases with you kids. (I can email it to you also)Your willingness to attempt speaking to them while making mistakes will give them more confidence to try English and make mistakes.

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  3. Just remember how hard it would be if you were in that situation. Not knowing the unknown is pretty scary, especally for little ones. Everything will work out and each and every day will be better and better. Just keep your Faith.

    Tammy McCallon

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  4. It is so good to hear from you. Thank God for technology! Maybe it is good for you to have been on your own with no language. Max is as frustrated as you are trying to order food. He doesn't want to get liver when he says candy. Ben have you tried singing as a tool to learning language? I'm thinking Old McDonald, Barney song, etc. Simple and fun maybe. Kids usually like to sing and sounds come easier. Make up songs about them. Nikki's song was "Granny loves Nikki, Grandad loves Nikki, Dad loves Nikki, Mom loves nikki, & ON&ON&ON till everybody loves our sweetie pie" Only the kids asked me to sing! & they stopped when they got older:)How long have they been in the orphanage? Time has a way of healing things but not always on our schedule. I have faith that you will continue to be blessed with the boys.
    Granny

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  5. I was really glad to hear your voices earlier. You sounded really good. Can't wait to see max and miles. love you best! granny compton

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